Can Miscarried or Aborted Babies Come Back?
Four-year-old Dorothy said, “Last time when I was 4 inches long and in your tummy, Daddy wasn’t ready to marry you yet, so I went away.
But then, I came back.”
Can a miscarried soul reincarnate?
Could little Dorothy possibly be remembering a real situation that occurred before birth?
Pre-birth research goes beyond-the-five-normal-senses to discover an answer to this question. Spiritual experiences reveal the “behind-the-scenes” activities related to the mundane and seemingly unrelated experiences of our lives. We need to look into the world of the soul.
One source to consider is the memories of children who are much too young to have been privy to their mother’s previous miscarriage or abortion:
A little girl is sitting on the kitchen floor playing with her doll, while Mom is preparing dinner.
Out of the blue, the little girl looks up at Mom and says: “Mom, remember when I was in your tummy but you were too young to have me and so you went to this place and they took me out of your tummy?”
Mom nearly dropped what she was holding, because her teenage abortion was a major family secret that certainly was not shared with her daughter.
A few minutes later, the little girl looked back up to her Mom with a big smile and said: “I am so glad I could come back again to be your little girl!”
Children’s minds are still forming, and they have not yet internalized the normative behaviors or quelling of their enthusiasm for sharing things exactly how they perceive them.
Sara shares her miscarriage story:
“I had a miscarriage at 18. My daughter was born 4 years later. One day when she was about 2 years old, she overheard me telling my friend about the miscarriage.
She came up and hugged me and said, ‘But I came back!’”
Many mothers share an unknown yet private bond in the tales of their children, who proclaim to have returned to this existence after leaving it beforehand.
Dr. Gladys McGarey’s book, Born to Live, tells the story of a patient:
This mother had a 4-year-old daughter, named Dorothy, whom she would take out to lunch occasionally.
They were talking about this and that, and the child would shift from one subject to another, when Dorothy suddenly said, “The last time I was a little girl, I had a different mommy!”
Then she started talking in a different language, which her mother tried to record.
Dorothy continued, “But that wasn’t the last time. Last time when I was 4 inches long and in your tummy, Daddy wasn’t ready to marry you yet, so I went away. But then, I came back.”
Then the child went back to chatting about 4-year-old matters.
The mother was silent. No one but her husband, the doctor, and she had known this, but she had become pregnant about 2 years before she and her husband were ready to get married.
She decided to have an abortion. She was ready to have the child, but her husband-to-be was not.
When the two of them did get married and were ready to have their first child, the same entity made its appearance.
The little child was saying, in effect, “I don’t hold any resentments toward you for having the abortion. I understand. I know why it was done, and it’s okay. So, here I am again. It was an experience. I learned from it and you learned from it, so now, let’s get on with the business of life.”
When a loss is suffered, often the parents hide their pain, and feel that it’s something to try and put out of their minds if and when they conceive again later. However, there is a possibility that subsequent babies after a loss may well be those same souls, coming back to Earth in a different vessel.
Spirit Baby Communicator, Kate Street explains:
“If you’ve suffered a miscarriage (or even an abortion or still-born), it was the loss of a body and NOT the loss of a soul.
That baby can and will MOST LIKELY come back in a subsequent pregnancy if you want. (This one is so important and the Spirit Babies REALLY want you to know this so there is less suffering.)
“For frame of reference, I had two miscarriages before my son Finn was born and I KNOW he was the same soul in all those pregnancies.
These days Finn comes up with stories on why he chose to go away and then come back later. He simply tells me that he had some last minute details to work out with his guides and angels, as well as his friends who were incarnating with him at the same time.
To this day, he’s still a homebody, preferring not to leave home unless he absolutely has to. He also tells me of some dark forces who tried to prevent some of the new children from coming to Earth at this time. Every time he talks about such things I’m completely rapt.” https://lovefrombaby.com/2013/06/28/
Further insight into this topic comes from sensitive mothers, like Lisbeth, who have communications with the souls of unborn children after an abortion.
In this case, we can call Lisbeth’s experience “after-death communication”:
“I aborted two souls many years ago and they both came back to me (together, holding hands, a boy and a girl) to tell me that they understood why I did what I did and that it was all part of the plan.
“It was truly wonderful and so healing for me. They told me they loved me, then turned and walked away, still holding hands.
“I never saw them again. I still remember that experience like it was yesterday. I had just finished doing yoga and way lying on the floor and then, there they were. I knew exactly who they were.
“What struck me the most was the love I felt from them. Gives me goose bumps just writing about it!”
Lisbeth gained the insight that abortion is not a life-or-death issue for the Spirit Baby. Unborn children already know they are eternal beings having a temporary human experience. So death isn’t such a “big deal” to a Spirit Baby or unborn Soul.
The foregoing reports may help us in removing our blinders concerning this dicey topic. Clearly, more is going on than our human senses can perceive during these events.
What can pre-birth research teach us about why a loss happens in the first place? There are no hard-and-fast rules here. No single explanation could begin to account for every failed pregnancy. Each incarnating soul is unique. Yet, when viewed from a broader perspective, even these painful events can be understood as being part of a greater plan rather than accidental.
Time is, after all, an illusion – and all moments are one in the same, happening simultaneously. Likewise, our spirits share a bond of oneness with every other soul, whether incarnated or not – and so the loss of a body, or a missed opportunity to incarnate, is of little consequence from the vantage point of a soul’s ultimate journey.
A miscarriage may be something both mother and baby agreed to go through while they were planning out their lifetimes. Perhaps they needed the experience to learn certain lessons, balance karma, or prepare for a larger, future task.
Kate Street emphasizes the hidden gifts of her two miscarriages:
“I know for me, the miscarriages also helped accelerate my spiritual growth and pre-birth communication abilities. The experiences gave me the ability to empathize with other women who are going through this and need comfort.”
Whenever a pregnancy ends in loss, for any reason – we can do well to look “outside the veil” to more fully understand the unfolding of events triggered by a miscarriage or abortion. Instead of regarding a life as a singular event, we can choose to look at it as an endless pattern of being, a pattern of exchange.
When we define prenatal loss as “bad,” our judgment is based in our limited, albeit powerful, experience of the here and now.
Instead, we can allow a more expansive picture to encompass our perception of this world; the pre-birth realm; as well as past, present, and future.
May 15, 2020 @ 03:28:46
Thank you, this soothed me very much.
Jul 10, 2020 @ 14:45:20
I have had two miscarriages in the past and two sons prior I have never been the same I even gave up trying
Jul 17, 2020 @ 22:33:37
I realize this is not a reassuring or comfortable idea, but I believe God showed me that for some souls, abortion can leave soul scars carried into the next life as chronic illness, disease, or deformed body parts. This can occur particularly if the parents of the aborted children did not come to terms, repent, come to forgive themselves, or find heavenly forgiveness on the matter. I can’t claim to fully understand the imparted wisdom, but I was also shown that love covers a multitude of sins. God bless<3
May 25, 2021 @ 13:41:09
Yes yes He’ll yeah and yes again every breath. I remembered clearly being born I remember knowing everything that was being discussed as if I was a participant in the conversations daily as time progressed I was losing the ability to understand language , then finally all understanding was gone. There is more but I cannot post that on a website sorry that is my life we are talking about and my mothers life should she ever read this she would be so hurt, so with that said respectfully goodbye people
Jul 05, 2021 @ 14:40:41
Enrique,
Thank you. It is undeniable that adults like yourself carry these memories as well as children worldwide.
Blessings,
Elizabeth
ps ..please check out our latest book: Babies Are Cosmic, Signs of Their Secret Intelligence.
May 25, 2021 @ 13:43:39
I love you all ❤️ is our mission in life so either love be loved or be lost Bye Bye Now ❤️
Apr 23, 2022 @ 06:54:44
This really helped thanks ❤️
May 05, 2022 @ 08:17:28
My daughter Frances remembers being born, the black midwife and hearing my laughter. Years later she asked me why I was laughing at her? I was mortified and said I was not laughing at you! I was laughing because I was so happy!
She also remembers being in the redness of my womb before birth. I think it is truly wonderful.
Jun 17, 2022 @ 04:24:21
Thank you for sharing. Wonderful that you validated your daughter’s memory and set the record straight about why you were laughing. I wish you the best!
Jun 26, 2022 @ 17:02:40
My youngest son (5) is unhappy he’s the youngest. He counted today that there’s a 2-year age gap between him and my oldest. He said: “But I wanted to be 2 and then he should have been born.”
I miscarried my first pregnancy. If that baby had lived, they would have been 2 at the birth of the next baby.
Am I reading too much into this?
Nov 18, 2022 @ 05:11:20
I aborted a pregnancy in 2016. For a year I cried every night. Went into a deep depression. Begging God for forgiveness, and wanted my baby back desperately. Almost a year to the day, I found out I was pregnant. I was happy, but also felt another baby couldn’t replace the one I’d given back. Then I found out I was pregnant with identical twins. Somehow, I instantly just knew I was not only forgiven, but allowed to have my baby back along with the baby I was being given. And I even know exactly which twin is my baby that came back to me. I felt it when I was pregnant, and when I saw his face, it confirmed everything for me.
Jan 02, 2023 @ 06:05:55
ADVICE or OPINION Please :
I got pregnant with my current partner 5 years ago and decided to have an abortion as I don’t feel i want to be a mother in this life. Always been a strong feeling since I’m young. My partner either. Few weeks ago, we met with our niece who’s 2 year old. We only saw her once for a family gathering when she was 2 months old and had not seen her since. She had cried the whole time and didn’t really meet her at all. This time, me and my partner felt a very strong connection, a feeling that we KNOW her on a soul level. We are wondering if it can be the soul who wanted to come through that came through another family member and is wanting to be around us that way ? This is very strange as we both don’t really connect with children, especially young toddlers but the connection was so strong that it is disturbing. I have been crying a lot since, not as i want to be her mother but as i feel i understand her needs and feelings. I am feeling very confused about all this. And we live so far away that we don’t see each other more than once a year…
Feb 05, 2023 @ 13:18:58
I was forced into a very late term abortion by my foster parents when I was 16. It was incredibly traumatic and the hole left from losing my daughter has never left even though I’ve grown up and gone on to be a mum to 5 amazing kids. I have very recently got back in touch with my daughters father after 20 years, who had no idea the truth behind the abortion and was threatened and kept away. There was a very large age difference between us back then but we spoke about what we had wanted, he told me he often thinks of our daughter and called her by her name I chose. He said he would have loved another child ( he had two teenage daughters with his ex wife when I met him) but things were incredibly hard and people would have made our relationship difficult. From how he spoke to me I think that he would rekindle a romantic relationship if I offered. I’m in a long term relationship and obviously have my children but my brain is going crazy with the thought that I could get my baby back. If I was to meet with him is it possible? could she come back to me?
Oct 31, 2024 @ 23:55:23
Is it possible for babies who were miscarried or aborted to come back in another life, and if so, what are the implications of this for our understanding of reincarnation and the nature of the soul?”,
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Feb 13, 2025 @ 08:20:18
What about in a case like SIDS? My son died at 12 days old. He was conceived on New Year’s Eve and born on a Friday the 13th. Three months after his death I happened to be ovulating on a Friday December 13th and on New Year’s Eve I found out I was pregnant again – a year from the date of my son’s conception. I am currently 10 weeks pregnant with this baby. I have meditated and cried out to the universe night after night since loosing my boy, asking that he will be returned to me. Do babies who die of SIDS ever return?