Choosing Parents

Why did you choose your parents?

Why did you choose your parents?

Krystle: I wholeheartedly believe I chose my parents and life-path before birth.

I remember being with another soul. We both knew we’d be females in this lifetime. We had to decide who got which set of two parents presented to us:

1. One path would be born into a loving, wealthy African American family.

2. The other path was birth into a poor white, broken family

I chose the second option because my soul needed the challenge of overcoming hardships.

I guess my previous lives had been “too easy”!?

My soul is content with the challenges I’ve faced in this lifetime. Although growing up with drug and alcohol addicted parents, overcoming poverty, and battling financial hardships have been hard lessons. Yet I feel like it’s been worth it.

Fun fact. The other soul that was with me and chose the wealthy African American is a female athlete in this lifetime. I can feel it.

Dylan: I remember looking down on earth and seeing choices for my upcoming life.

I was scanning thru a portal at a woman giving birth to a baby.

A strong higher being asked me with a feeling of disappointment, “Have you made your choice?”

I felt rushed to come back and do things right. I saw my parents gaze at each other, looking strong, beautiful, and happy. I looked no further and picked them.

I feel like I chose almost at random compared to how much time I had to choose.

I remember nothing before choosing my parents. My next memories start after I am about 4 years old.

Paul: I am 48 years old. I was happy to find a site for this specific topic and more.

I remember having a choice of whom I wanted to be my father before entering this world. I got to choose from three different men.

As soon as I could talk, I told my father about this vivid experience.

At first, he thought I was pulling his leg, but as time went on we continued to talk this over. As Dad got older, his views changed and became more open-minded.

I shared this with close friends only. Without a doubt, this has been imprinted in my memory.

Find out more about memories of choosing parents, spiritual existence before coming to earth. Over 100 stories from people we interviewed as well as reports from 108 cultures.

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Prebirth memories not only make for interesting stories, these abilities will change the boundaries of medical and psychological research, and even more importantly, change our understanding of who and what we are.


Evidence of Life before Birth

Evidence of Life before Birth

Do we choose our parents before birth? Does reincarnation really exist? Is there a prebirth state of consciousness? Is it possible to experience soul communication from the womb and beyond?

Elizabeth and Neil Carman join Sandie Sedgbeer to discuss these questions and share pre-birth memories from children and adults:

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Elizabeth and Neil  have spent more than 40 years researching consciousness. Elizabeth is a certified pre and perinatal psychology educator with an honorary PhD for prebirth research. Neil has taught biology and the science of consciousness at the University of Texas, Austin. They are the authors of Cosmic Cradle, Spiritual Dimensions of Life before Birth.

Cosmic Cradle shares over 100 pre-birth stories from people we interviewed as well as reports from 108 cultures.

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Mystical Side of Souls Seeking Birth

Mystical Side of Souls Seeking Birth


Most of us have been taught “myths” about babies, whether they are still in the womb or are newborns. Western culture treats “babies” as pre-human or subhuman creatures not yet equipped with a brain capable of experiencing pain.

But even before conception, unborn children are conscious beings who choose parents. We are receiving more and more reports from parents who receive messages from a child seeking birth as well as children who innocently tell parents how and why they chose them.

There is a realm of Love and Light where unborn children, invisible to “normal” human senses, are waiting in the wings for human birth. The unborn child is a conscious, telepathic being. It sees in 360-degree vision. It can see and sense far more than we think is possible. They can communicate telepathically before conception and while in the womb.

Learn more about Spirit-babies scanning earth to find parents! Listen to this interview with Elizabeth and Neil Carman, Authors of Cosmic Cradle, Spiritual Dimensions of Life before Birth.

Do Adopted Kids have Spiritual Parent Connections?

Can adoptive parents be "chosen" by their children before they are born?

Spiritual connections of parenthood don’t only apply to blood relations…

What is adoption all about? Is it by chance?

Our prebirth research suggests that there is a reason for a soul to incarnate into a particular family, and there is a lot going on behind the scenes that we are sometimes not in a position to fully understand.

People born with prebirth memories shed new light on adoption.


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